How to Be a Better Couple 10 steps to enjoying each other better
1. Be realistic about each other. Don't try to turn your partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give your gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnight with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so you are going to have to do with what your guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to your partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out. Now guys, I know this is not your favorite pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to express yourself better so that your partner understands what you are angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stops talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together. Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve in some shared activities; something both of u enjoys or is interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand. Watch soccer with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if your gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If you are spending more time with your friends rather than with your partner, it's a warning sign that you are drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway. If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep your room tidy. There's got to be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5. Show your love. Buy her flowers or candy or perfume every now and then, even if u has been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal; paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear (like for decoration purposes ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he/she knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other. Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask yourself if she thinks if it’s funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past. Stop bringing up the past. Gals don't bring up the happy things about u and your ex to your guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with your ex or mention about her in your every other sentence as it would make your gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this because u going to get back with your ex or not interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on your jealousy. All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If you are going to go through your partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u knows something is wrong with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finally killing it. Trust your partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep your commitments to each other. If your partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If you are in a relationship, make your partner your priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If your partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may just lose him/her.
10. Be honest. Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing your feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When you are hurt, say so, and when you are angry, tell him/her, who getting hysterical. If u can't be honest you’re your partner, who can you be honest with? Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!
Mar 6, 2008
True & Meaningful
Nov 13, 2007
宽恕
过去的事让他过去
不要停留在原地打圈圈
做人要懂得宽恕
宽恕才能解脱痛苦
我也是这样做，你也应该这样做
我曾经很矛盾，但是终于我想通了
你也应该可以
只有宽恕
你的内心才会得到真正的快乐与自由
*Beaches make me feel comfort*
Nov 12, 2007
轻松一下
1.题目: 原来
小朋友写: 原来他是我爸爸。
老师评语: 妈妈关切一下
3.题目: ..一边.........一边...........
小朋友写: 他一边脱衣服 ,一边穿裤子.
老师评语: 他到底要脱还是要穿啊~~
9. 题目: 其中
小朋友写: 我的其中一只左脚受伤了。
老师评语 : 你是蜈蚣？~~
10.题目: 一... 就....
小朋友写: 一只娃娃就要一百块。
老师评语: 老师笑到不行..
11.題目: 你看
小朋友写: 你看什么看! 没看过啊
12. 照样造句
例题: 你 [唱歌] 我 [跳舞]
小朋友写: 你 [好吗] 我 [很好]
老师评语: 你在写英文翻译吗??
13.照样造句
例题: 别人都夸我[ ],其实我[ ]
小朋友写: 别人都夸我[很帅], 其实我[是戴面具的]。
老师评语: 什么面具这么好用???
14.题目: 好... 又好..
小朋友写: 妈妈的腿,好细又好粗 ...
老师评语: 那到底是细还是粗？
15.题目: 陆陆续续
小朋友写: 下班了,爸爸陆陆续续的回来。
老师评语: 你到底有几个爸爸呀?
20.题目: 皮开肉绽
小朋友写: 停电的夜晚,到处很黑,我吓得皮开肉绽!
老师评语: 看到这句... 老师佩服你。
21. 题目: 欣欣向荣-比喻生长美好的样子。
小朋友写: 我的弟弟长得欣欣向荣。
老师评语: 孩子,你弟弟是植物人吗...
还有一个更瞎的…
小朋友写 : 欣欣向荣荣告白。
老师评语: 连续剧不要看太多~~
22. 题目 : 谢谢....因为......
小朋友写: 我要谢谢妈妈,因为她每天都帮我写作业 ......
老师评语: 原来你的作业是妈妈写的!!!!!!!
23.题目: 难过
小朋友写: 我家门前有条水沟很难过。
老师评语: 老师更难过 ......
26. 题目: 天才
小朋友写: 我3天才洗一次澡。
老师评语: 要每天洗才干净~~
27.題目: 一 … 便…
小朋友写: 我一走出门,对面就是便利商店。
还有一個更瞎的 …
小朋友写: 哥哥一吃完饭,就大便。
老师评语: 造句不要乱造 ...
31.題目: 又.....又.....
小朋友寫 : 我的妈妈又矮又高又瘦又肥。
老师评语:你妈妈......是怪物吗?
Nov 4, 2007
倒数14天
考试要到了
倒数时间只剩14天了
但我现在在干吗呢？
K 书？ 不是
做练习？ 也不是
一部接一部的韩剧，港剧。。
我的天啊！这是在干吗呀？？！！
但就算打开课本也无法专心
几分钟后眼睛就想盖了
如果任何一科fail掉了，就不能毕业
不能上大学一年级了 * 压力*
Midterm exam的卷纸发下来了
有些不满意。。而且也挺危险的
如果final没考好，fail的机会也满大的
Accouting, Business Management, Wrs, Ecs, Maths, Malaysian studies
唯有担心的是accouting 和 maths 咯，其他科目还好
认识我的人应该都知道老娘的数学超烂的吧 *担心*
妈的！偏偏这个时候又要我们填re-enrolment form
靠！我都不知道自己要念什么
而且我做了一个online test 发现，也许我一开始就做了错误的决定
WHAT MAJOR IS RIGHT FOR YOU?
You scored as a French/Spanish/OtherLanguage
You should strongly consider majoring (or minoring) in a foreign language, especially French or Spanish as they have a greater use in today's world. But other languages could be useful to you as well, such as Chinese, Japanese, German, Italian, or many others. With a major in a foreign language you could teach, or work for a company as a translator or foreign correspondant.
Visual&PerformingArts
63%
Biology/Chemistry/Geology
63%
Psychology/Sociology
63%
French/Spanish/OtherLanguage
63%
Accounting/Finance/Marketing
56%
HR/BusinessManagement
56%
English/Journalism/Comm
56%
Nursing/AthleticTraining/Health
56%
History/Anthropology/LiberalArts
50%
PoliticalScience/Philosophy
44%
Religion/Theology
38%
Physics/Engineering/Computer
31%
Education/Counseling
31%
Mathematics/Statistics
25%
我曾经考虑过interpreter, 但是又担心未来出路的问题
Visual & performing arts, biology/chemistry, psychology, foreign language 是我应该选择的吗？
Then why am I here taking commerce? Question mark~~~ question mark~~~
Oct 24, 2007
Back to kch
Went back my home sweet home last week. Finally can hug my love ones...see ppl I miss much...hang out with my buddies....eat lots of food tat I miss...bla bla bla...Its jus good to be HOME.
Then finally HOME!!! This is d one i wana hug most!!!! DING~~~~
Guess wat??!!! Mummy thought her daughter went to Africa....so bought many junk food for her
Mum: See bought tis for u.
me: Ohhh...thanks
Mum: Finish them before u leave
me: WHAT!! Mummy 8 days nia le.....( in my mind----FAT FAT FAT )
Gona celebrate my dad's belated befday at nite.Before going to the restaurant, dad brought me to see my new dog. Its a german shepherd,black. We name him LUCKY!! (yea its a common name but easier for my 80 yr old grandma to call him ba...hehe) Gona see him one month later coz he is still small...have to stay with his mama.
I prefer golden but papa say they r too friendly cannot scare theif.....hmm
Prawn with five flavor sauce ( bit sweet, sour, spicy...)
17/10/07
The side....nice fringe eh~.jpg)
19/10/07
Nothing special....went to sing K with Vicky and her fren, Julie (nice voice). We started singin from 2pm to 6pm (4 hrs man)....How?? No voice ki la....my voice turn so sexy...to bad u guys cant hear it....hahaha
20/10/07
Breakfast at Yek Yuan's shop with LIng(finaly meet her), BH, BJ, SW....left so few ppl in kch...sigh~~~~Nvm just wait till CNY 08' !!!! Then ling went to my house and so we GAMBLE!
Result: ling---got 1 double, 1 banlad, 3 five dragon in 10 game (ciken)
Me---got 2 double, 1 dragon (haiz~~~)
Nvm...next gamble at our december trip.....guys help me win my $ back!! lol
Finally 8 days finish. I get to see poeple I miss....eat foods that I miss...hug my love...haha...but dint get to some places like scoop, secret recipe, Living room, Isabella bla bla bla
My dears & darlings in SG...Kl...China....wait u gurls back we go together OK!!! miss you all~~~~
Oct 12, 2007
BACK
People~~~ DIANA aka HATA is BACK!!!!
Damn busy the pass few days.....assignments, projects, exhibition, presentations, exams........wat the hell.....luckilly dint went crazy!! Well I have been quite low mood last time and now im okay edi...come on~~who am I??!! DIANA ok.....thanks to all my darlings and love ones....thanks for ur concerns......HUggssss~~~~~
Well for this post is all gona be pictures as im lazy to say too much....hehe....here we go
Me and the gals
Yen, Tang and Yap during Accounting presentation (Im d camera gal of coz)
Quite happy with my acc presentation as I got 9.5 out of 10 marks.....hehe
FREEZE!! Put Ur hands Up in the AIR!! (lol)
Tuesday was exhibition for Malaysian studies....we have to do something on Malaysian achievement so.....first thing came to our mind was------BADMINTON!! who then???
Tan Boon Heong & Koo Kien Keat (men's double)
What is Malaysia good at?? Badminton la~~well before this....i never noe people like them are so geng......hehe (soli lo)
They are quite good in this field as they have won many games and the recent news is they won a big game in MACAU held in October.....congratz congratz!!
And some more pics:
Our poster (standard malaysian post)
Hamchipeng n stupid me
Yen & me
U thought this is the end of the week?? NO!! Besides exhibition, we have to hand in our WRS and attend two classes tat day.......MATHS test on Wednesday.......Accounting project & Maths project due on Friday!! plus have to hand in my WRS again on friday coz my lecturer reject my work....sigh~~~
This week is busy busy busy......Well its all over now.....As u can see im blogging & eating my grape flavour youghurt now.....waiting for my ONE WEEK holidays~~~~~~yeapi~~~~~~
ps: HAPPY HOLIDAY & Selamat Hari Raya to everyone!
Oct 2, 2007
The answer NO
NO holding hands with you at the beach.
NO candle lights dinner with you at the restaurant.
NO running in the rain with you.
NO holding me with your arms.
NO more tears and pain.
NO need to be silly anymore.
You are NO more mine.
Well you have never been mine and would not be mine.
It is too late for me.
Thank you for giving the answer which I dint want it to be.
I have nothing to say and yet not willing to say anything.
Sep 27, 2007
Happy Moon Cake Fes
我的青青小灯笼........可爱吧~~~~~
蜜雪儿的红红传统式灯笼
格雷丝的粉红色小灯笼（不要再讲电话了！！）
合照（我和格雷丝）
嘿 嘿 嘿 嘿（我也不懂我嘿什么）
就这样......我们四个人.....沿着 Lrg A 走到 Lrg C.....路途中遇到很多Curtin 的学生.....大家也像我们一样提着灯笼逛街.....
就这样一群人浩浩荡荡得跟着前面第一个人走（也不知道要走到哪儿去.........嘿嘿）
虽然过了但还是祝大家------------------中秋节快乐！！
我也该continue my acc le.......wish me luck~~~~
